Are you raising kids without backup, money, or a moment to yourself?

Welcome to the club no one warned you about—but Mama Needs a Village is here to change that.

I unpack why motherhood feels harder than ever—and how brands are profiting off your exhaustion. From emotional burnout to budget-stretching hacks, I’ll show you how to stop buying into the lie that perfection is affordable, and start building a life that works—for real moms, on real incomes, with real struggles.

You’re not failing because your marriage isn’t 50/50. You’re not broken because your husband doesn’t instinctively scrub the toilet or remember your kid’s shoe size. The modern fantasy of perfect equality in parenting is exhausting—and unrealistic for many of us raised in a different world. This piece is for the moms making it work, the women choosing independence, and anyone tired of being told it’s their fault if their partner won’t “step up.” Let’s talk about what real partnerships look like—flaws, uneven loads, and all.

Did you know Bluey’s parents are in their 40s—and thriving? In a world that pushes 20-somethings to procreate before they’re ready, Chilli and Bandit Heeler offer a refreshing, quietly radical take on parenting: mature, present, and totally relatable. Here’s why their age matters more than you think—and what we can learn from these animated Aussies.

Before I became a mom, I thought my village would look just like me—same phase, same parenting style, same oat milk. Instead, I found something better: a tribe of wildly different women who keep me sane, seen, and whole. One helps me survive. One makes me aspire. One reminds me I’m still a woman. This Mother’s Day, maybe the gift you really need isn’t a break. It’s a broader circle.

You ever wish you could go back and give your younger self a heads-up? Me too. Not just as a mom but also as a woman who spent too much time being the “cool girl,” picking the wrong guys, and shrinking herself to be chosen. If you’re burned out, stretched thin, or just tired of chasing someone else’s definition of a good life—grab this free printable and start writing your way back to you.

We love to toss around “it takes a village,” but what happens when there is no village? No one to hold the baby while you shower, no friend to text when you’re unraveling in a parking lot. For millions of moms, this is the everyday reality—and it’s slowly breaking them.

This isn’t a personal failing. It’s a societal setup. If you’ve ever whispered “I can’t do this anymore” into the dark, this one’s for you.

What if the part of you that made you feel most you—before the diapers, the mental load, the marriage friction—has gone quiet? This isn’t just another “self-care” post. It’s a raw, real look at how moms lose themselves—and how journaling can help you remember who you were before motherhood rewrote everything. Spoiler: bubble baths won’t fix it. But your own words just might.

Boy moms—you’re either already side-eyeing your future daughter-in-law or you’re carrying the crushing responsibility of fixing modern masculinity. And no matter what, you’re doing it wrong in someone’s eyes. But what if we stopped expecting moms to either be their son’s first love or a full-time social justice warrior? Let’s talk about why we need to give boy moms a damn break—and how #boymom culture is setting all of us up for failure.

Every parenting tip out there swears that structure and routine are the keys to sanity—but what if that’s a lie? No amount of color-coded calendars will change the fact that toddlers are tiny chaos machines. If you’re exhausted from carrying the mental load of your household while society tells you it’s still not enough, it’s time for a reality check. Here are the real secrets to keeping your sanity as a parent—no extra planning required.

Vacationing with a toddler isn’t the relaxing getaway social media makes it out to be. It’s still parenting—just in a new, often more chaotic location. The reality is far from those Instagram highlight reels. Before you book that trip, here’s an honest look at what traveling with little kids is really like.

Marriage is hard, babies are harder, and the first year of both? A Molotov cocktail of sleepless nights, fights, and wondering if your relationship will survive. I’m sharing the messy reality of surviving your first year as newlyweds and new parents. Think crying (you and the baby), arguments over whose turn it is, and a few surprising wins along the way. If you’re knee-deep in diapers and dishes wondering if it’s supposed to be this hard, this is for you. Spoiler: It gets better—eventually.

Motherhood is hard, especially when you’re doing it alone. Here’s how to build your village, connect with like-minded moms, and reclaim your sanity — because every mom deserves a community.

In a world obsessed with success, we’ve forgotten that average is okay—more than okay; it’s real life. Not every child needs to be a prodigy, and not every parent should push for perfection. The constant pressure for kids to excel in everything isn’t making kids well-rounded; it's stressing them out.

Sure, raising a child is expensive, but it's not just about the money. Today's parents face an overwhelming array of pressures—from managing their child's organic, gluten-free diet to ensuring they're excelling academically and emotionally. The societal expectations are crushing, demanding parents to balance careers, personal lives, and immaculate parenting. The community support of yesteryear is gone, leaving parents isolated. Until these deeper issues are addressed, don’t expect a baby boom anytime soon.

Social media has become the battlefield where modern mothers voice their frustration. Women, disillusioned by the promise of "having it all," are now exposing the stark reality of unfulfilled expectations from their partners. The myth of equality is unraveling as mothers detail their partners' failures in meeting basic household responsibilities, bearing the invisible mental load, and managing emotional labor. These posts reveal a movement that’s calling out dads for their sporadic involvement and lack of appreciation. The digital age has turned these grievances into a powerful rallying cry for genuine change in how parenting duties are shared.