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When Did Average Stop Being Good Enough?
In a world obsessed with success, we’ve forgotten that average is okay—more than okay; it’s real life. Not every child needs to be a prodigy, and not every parent should push for perfection. The constant pressure for kids to excel in everything isn’t making kids well-rounded; it's stressing them out.
Why No One’s Having Kids Anymore: It's Not Just About the Money
Sure, raising a child is expensive, but it's not just about the money. Today's parents face an overwhelming array of pressures—from managing their child's organic, gluten-free diet to ensuring they're excelling academically and emotionally. The societal expectations are crushing, demanding parents to balance careers, personal lives, and immaculate parenting. The community support of yesteryear is gone, leaving parents isolated. Until these deeper issues are addressed, don’t expect a baby boom anytime soon.
The Invisible Load: Why Modern Fathers Are Failing
Social media has become the battlefield where modern mothers voice their frustration. Women, disillusioned by the promise of "having it all," are now exposing the stark reality of unfulfilled expectations from their partners. The myth of equality is unraveling as mothers detail their partners' failures in meeting basic household responsibilities, bearing the invisible mental load, and managing emotional labor. These posts reveal a movement that’s calling out dads for their sporadic involvement and lack of appreciation. The digital age has turned these grievances into a powerful rallying cry for genuine change in how parenting duties are shared.
Trying to Get My Kid to Sleep Alone in His Crib Broke Me
Every new parent knows those initial weeks of waking every two hours with your newborn. You brace yourself, thinking it’s temporary, clinging to the hope that those sleep windows will gradually stretch. But when my one-year-old started reverting back to waking every two hours, I got desperate.
10 Things Every New Mom Should Know
Motherhood isn’t a magical, transcendent act that automatically makes you the best mom ever, solely dedicated to your child’s upbringing. I've compiled what I consider to be the 10 most crucial pieces of advice for every new mom (and partner).
Can We Talk About "I Hate Being a Mom" Moments?
Motherhood is no walk in the park. “Moming” can feel less like a labor of love and more like an unappreciated grine. The struggle is real, especially for those perfectionists among us, grappling with the unattainable quest for perfection in the current season of life.
8 Tips for Giving Advice to a New Mom
For those on the outside looking in, offering advice to a new mom can be a tricky endeavor. In the midst of hormonal fluctuations and the profound responsibility of caring for a newborn, well-intentioned advice can sometimes be misconstrued. Many new parents struggle with unsolicited parenting advice, and it can cause riffs in families.
The Pitfalls of Influencer-Driven Parenting
The skewed representation of influencers can make ordinary parents feel inadequate and perpetuate the myth that everyone else is managing parenthood perfectly. But parents can find the support they need by recognizing the dangers of this unrealistic portrayal.
Why Caring for a Baby is Easier Than Ourselves
Caring for a baby is hard, but is it easier than caring for oneself? While there’s a constant cycle of care, its simplicity lies in a respite, a break from the complexities of self-care.
5 Parenting Styles Unveiled: Which one works for your family?
We get it – the world of parenting can sometimes feel like a whirlwind of trends, extremes, and advice that seems way too out of touch with our everyday lives. So, let’s take a stroll through the jungle of parenting styles that are making waves in the modern world.
Surviving Baby's First Day Home
Brace yourself for the rollercoaster ride of emotions, sleep deprivation, and controlled chaos that is your first day back home. Fear not, though; I've got the insider intel on what to expect and how the seasoned moms navigated the madness.
Parenting After Dark: Navigating Parenthood Amidst the Shadows of a Party Past
For those who once embraced the nightlife, sleepless parties, and carefree social lives, the arrival of parenthood introduces unique challenges.