Parenting Articles for the Real Life: Messy Homes, Kids, & Hair
Why We Need to Give The Two Types of Boy Moms a Damn Break
Boy moms—you’re either already side-eyeing your future daughter-in-law or you’re carrying the crushing responsibility of fixing modern masculinity. And no matter what, you’re doing it wrong in someone’s eyes. But what if we stopped expecting moms to either be their son’s first love or a full-time social justice warrior? Let’s talk about why we need to give boy moms a damn break—and how #boymom culture is setting all of us up for failure.
The Secret to Not Losing Your Mind as a Parent (It’s Not Another Routine)
Every parenting tip out there swears that structure and routine are the keys to sanity—but what if that’s a lie? No amount of color-coded calendars will change the fact that toddlers are tiny chaos machines. If you’re exhausted from carrying the mental load of your household while society tells you it’s still not enough, it’s time for a reality check. Here are the real secrets to keeping your sanity as a parent—no extra planning required.
Why Not Take My Baby On Vacation? Because It Sucks, That's Why
Vacationing with a toddler isn’t the relaxing getaway social media makes it out to be. It’s still parenting—just in a new, often more chaotic location. The reality is far from those Instagram highlight reels. Before you book that trip, here’s an honest look at what traveling with little kids is really like.
How to Survive the First Year of Marriage and a New Baby Without Getting a Divorce
Marriage is hard, babies are harder, and the first year of both? A Molotov cocktail of sleepless nights, fights, and wondering if your relationship will survive. I’m sharing the messy reality of surviving your first year as newlyweds and new parents. Think crying (you and the baby), arguments over whose turn it is, and a few surprising wins along the way. If you’re knee-deep in diapers and dishes wondering if it’s supposed to be this hard, this is for you. Spoiler: It gets better—eventually.
Why Every Mom Needs a Village (and How to Build Yours)
Motherhood is hard, especially when you’re doing it alone. Here’s how to build your village, connect with like-minded moms, and reclaim your sanity — because every mom deserves a community.
When Did Average Stop Being Good Enough?
In a world obsessed with success, we’ve forgotten that average is okay—more than okay; it’s real life. Not every child needs to be a prodigy, and not every parent should push for perfection. The constant pressure for kids to excel in everything isn’t making kids well-rounded; it's stressing them out.
Why No One’s Having Kids Anymore: It's Not Just About the Money
Sure, raising a child is expensive, but it's not just about the money. Today's parents face an overwhelming array of pressures—from managing their child's organic, gluten-free diet to ensuring they're excelling academically and emotionally. The societal expectations are crushing, demanding parents to balance careers, personal lives, and immaculate parenting. The community support of yesteryear is gone, leaving parents isolated. Until these deeper issues are addressed, don’t expect a baby boom anytime soon.
The Invisible Load: Why Modern Fathers Are Failing
Social media has become the battlefield where modern mothers voice their frustration. Women, disillusioned by the promise of "having it all," are now exposing the stark reality of unfulfilled expectations from their partners. The myth of equality is unraveling as mothers detail their partners' failures in meeting basic household responsibilities, bearing the invisible mental load, and managing emotional labor. These posts reveal a movement that’s calling out dads for their sporadic involvement and lack of appreciation. The digital age has turned these grievances into a powerful rallying cry for genuine change in how parenting duties are shared.
Trying to Get My Kid to Sleep Alone in His Crib Broke Me
Every new parent knows those initial weeks of waking every two hours with your newborn. You brace yourself, thinking it’s temporary, clinging to the hope that those sleep windows will gradually stretch. But when my one-year-old started reverting back to waking every two hours, I got desperate.
10 Things Every New Mom Should Know
Motherhood isn’t a magical, transcendent act that automatically makes you the best mom ever, solely dedicated to your child’s upbringing. I've compiled what I consider to be the 10 most crucial pieces of advice for every new mom (and partner).
Can We Talk About "I Hate Being a Mom" Moments?
Motherhood is no walk in the park. “Moming” can feel less like a labor of love and more like an unappreciated grine. The struggle is real, especially for those perfectionists among us, grappling with the unattainable quest for perfection in the current season of life.
8 Tips for Giving Advice to a New Mom
For those on the outside looking in, offering advice to a new mom can be a tricky endeavor. In the midst of hormonal fluctuations and the profound responsibility of caring for a newborn, well-intentioned advice can sometimes be misconstrued. Many new parents struggle with unsolicited parenting advice, and it can cause riffs in families.