The Hidden Cost of ‘Hands-On’ Parenting (And Why You Shouldn’t Feel Guilty for Backing Off)

Modern parenting makes you feel like if you’re not hand-feeding your kid organic dragonfruit while running between soccer practice and STEM tutoring, you’re somehow failing. But no one tells you: the more hands-on you are, the more drained, broke, and resentful you become. And the worst part? It’s not even helping your kid. If you’ve ever wondered why you’re exhausted, stressed, and constantly questioning if you’re ‘doing enough,’ this is the reality check you need—because backing off isn’t lazy parenting. It’s the smartest move you can make.